May 23, 2013

Getting into Secondary School

If you have a great local secondary school that is easy to get into you’re lucky. In some parts of the UK is can be very difficult to get a place at a good local school. I’m from South-East London, and there’s quite a problem around here. It is inevitably a difficult time, but apart from crossing your fingers and hoping for the best, there are some things you can do. Firstly, I would recommend not giving negative messages to your child about any school. For a start, children don’t keep these opinions to themselves.

My son’s year 6 was almost spoilt by children telling him how rubbish the schools were that he had chosen. Secondly you have to remember that the most important factor in your child doing well in their high school education is you. All schools are a mixture of good and not-so-good that your child will have to learn to negotiate. [Read more...]

Preparing to leave primary school

Preparing to leave primary school education and enter secondary school, or high school as it is known in Scotland and America, is a major task. The transition has the potential to be stressful for child and parent alike. Year 6, the final primary year, can be difficult for children who face the dual pressures of SATS exams and trying to get into a secondary school of their choice.

Preparing for SATS can leave little time for children to enjoy their education, and a common complaint at this age is that school is ‘boring’. Unlikely as it may seem, some children (like my son) relish exams, but many others find it stressful. There are a few things you can do to help. [Read more...]

Settling into school

I still remember vividly my son’s first day at ‘big school’. The weeks before were characterised by heightened anxiety (mine!), but when the big day finally arrived, he launched himself into the classroom and didn’t look back.  In the UK children will be only five years old when they start formal education, which is still very young. So our job as parents is to make sure that they can cope. Firstly, don’t project your own experiences of primary school education, good or bad, on to your own children. Obviously they don’t need to know if you hated every single day of your own school, but neither do they need to know that you adored it – let your child make their own mind up. [Read more...]